Showing posts with label mother and child care. Show all posts
Showing posts with label mother and child care. Show all posts

Sunday, September 18, 2011

my first blood extraction to Mom

To have a medical professional in the family (i.e. Doctors, Nurses, Physical therapist and the likes) is a fortune, that is, of course the family gets the first hand and immediate care from them when it comes to health problem for free.

However, the agony of this professionals is sometimes, they doesn't want to do hands-on to job which could inflict pain to their loved-ones (i.e. venipuncture). I've known one doctor, whom she cannot hit the right vein  for her brother patient in  a toxic state,  and ends up handing the job to the doctor next to her. ( i could have volunteer to do the task, but that is against health ethics, i was just a student nurse, then).

my mother on the other hand complained to me of her foot swelling, she said she got the left feet sprained some 3 days ago but she noticed the swell is not due to the sprain as both were swelling now. and, as i made an assessment, i noted 2+ pitting edema, there is a water retention in her system, a possible side effect of the meds she's taking and then i began asking her history, and told her she needs to visit her doctor, but first i want to make sure that the doctor has good basis on assessing her condition and give the right prescription,  so i decided to have her blood examination first, that is complete blood chemistry, and to bring the result to her physician.

to save money and time, i coordinated with my associates at the local hospital and asked for the kit needed in the blood extraction as i planned to do it myself early the next day.

during the extraction, i asked my mom, if she trust me that i can do it, also told her, that, doing it to her the first time made my nerves racked, thoughts like, what if i missed..?

i'm not expert but i am confident.

and so i held the syringe and point at the first sight of a tangible brachial vein, and like the way i held the stoeger with my strong hand at the shooting range when i fired, my hands ain't steady, but i didn't missed.


Tuesday, July 12, 2011

TEACH THE CHILDREN WELL

yesterday, i took my easy afternoon sitted at dairy queens lounge,alimall, cubao, and find time to read Mitch Albom's "for one more day" (now on page 107), and at the same time enjoying my diary queen blizzard (mango and cream-o mix) when, i got distracted by a lady's strident to i guess a three year old kid and maybe his son, near the exit door of the mall, even the other consumers has turned their heads up to see what the noise was all about, while i am seeing directly the duo, what fret me much is that the lady didn't only raised her voice to the kid but hit him thrice as well, venting her anger to the little boy's lanky body and innocent face, as if the kid could figure out what his flaws was all about. (no matter what's the fuss, the lady should at least manage to control her anger, much more that she is in a public place and she's so pretty aware that she is being watched, however, i cannot blame her for that, could've been that she got problem in managing her anger)



In as much as i want to meddle with them, i held back, as i see it's their family that has in control with the matter. Could have been my weak points that i hadn't done any in the situation, but this i want to share to not only mothers but also to fathers, guardians and the likes who rears and raise a child to:



take good care of their children - so they would know how to care when they grow up,

don't hurt them - so they won't be fierce when they're old,

feed, nurture and nourish them well - so they become lively in their growing years,

talk to them - so they would learn to listen,

listen to them - so they would know how to talkplay with them and give them time

tell them good and beautiful stories before they sleep or lull them to sleep - so they'll feel at peace when their unconscious,

treat them equally - so they know how to be fair

allow them to explore but be sure to guide them

respect them - so they would be



teach them good deeds and good things - so they'll be good

teach them and teach them well - so they may lead the way

and most of all GIVE THEM A HAPPY CHILDHOOD so in this lifetime they would have a HAPPY JOURNEY!





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